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vendredi 13 septembre 2013

BACK TO WORK BUT WITH A SAD NOTE


MY RETURN TO WORK  WAS QUITE SAD. ONE OF MY COLLEAGUE, THE FINANCIAL DIRECTOR DIED ON HOLIDAY. HE WAS IN TURKEY WITH HIS WIFE AND HIS 5 YEARS OLD DAUGHTER. HE DIED THE FIRST NIGHT.



 WHEN THEY ARRIVE AT THEIR HOTEL, THEY JUST UNPACKED  AND HIS WIFE WENT TO TAKE A BATH.
 IT  WAS THEN SHE  HEARD HER DAUGHTER SAID : " DADDY , DADDY WEAK UP ! PLEASE DADDY WEAK UP ! MUMMY DADDY DOES NOT WANT TO WAKE UP ".


HIS WIFE THEN WENT TO THE ROOM AND FIND HIM ON THE FLOOR WITH THEIR DAUGHTER LIKE HE WAS SLEEPING. SHE TRIED TO CALL HIM AND SHAKE HIM THEN SHE REALISED THAT HE WASN'T RESPONDING.
 SHE CALLED THE RECEPTION AND THEY SEND AN EMPLOYEE WHO ASKED IMMEDIATELY TO CALL A DOCTOR AND AN AMBULANCE. APPARENTLY THERE WAS A DOCTOR IN THE HOTEL WHO CAME QUICKLY AND TOLD THEM AFTER TRYING TO RESUSCITATE HIM THAT HE WAS DEAD AND PROBABLY FROM A HEART ATTACK.




YOU CAN IMAGINE THE SHOCK AT WORK.  HE WAS 44 ( LIKE ME ), VERY FIT ALWAYS AT THE GYM NO DRINK, NO CIGARETTES.... HE SEEMS TO HAVE A HEALTHY LIFE STYLE.
I KNOW THAT WHEN YOUR DAY  IS COMING   IT  JUST COMES THAT'S IT.
 BUT I AM SO SAD FOR HIS DAUGHTER HE ALSO DIED ON HER BIRTHDAY LIKE IT WASN'T ENOUGH TO SEE HIM DEAD.....



 I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT CAN HAPPEN IN THE HEAD OF HIS 5 YEARS OLD DAUGHTER ........
BECAUSE AT MY AGE I DON'T KNOW IF I CAN COPE  WELL IF I  LOST SOMEONE SO CLOSE IN MY FAMILY EVEN IF MY PARENTS ARE OLD, DIABETICS I AM NOT VERY COMFORTABLE TO THINK ABOUT " THEIR DEPARTURE"........

 ENOUGH! ENOUGH! ENOUGH!      R.I.P GRAHAM... JUST REST IN PEACE ...AND MAY GOD BLESS YOUR SOUL !


6 commentaires:

  1. Welcome back. I am happy to see your return. I am deeply sorry for the sudden loss you report. Death at any time is tough. I wish we could shield little children. I hope both she and his husband will be okay in time. That is extremely sad. Graham was fortunate to have a caring friend like you.

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    1. Thank you I hope also that his daughter and wife will be OK. The strange thing is that he bought a new princess bed for her and it was delivered on Thursday at school because he wanted to surprised her later in the month. Even if death is part of our life on earth sometimes it is just difficult to accept it.

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  2. Also, your hair style is actually very nice. You look great.

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    1. Thank you I wore my hair that way when I was going to church. But i have to tide it up because it was sooo hot like 30 degree lol

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  3. so sorry to hear that. i have chills from reading this. we have to cherish each and every day!

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